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How To Hire a DJ/MC For Your
Reception
Watch out for someone with a
"bunch of C.D.'s"
Do you remember when you first started to daydream about your wedding?
If you're like most brides, it was years before he asked you to spend
the rest of your lives together. It may have been while you were
watching Cinderella, or when you were playing Barbie and Ken, or one
Halloween where you dressed as a bride and everyone said, "Ah, she's so
beautiful!" The significant thing about all these memories is that they
were so perfect. Now you're all grown up - no more make-believe. You
have a much clearer picture of what you want now than you did then. And,
back then you couldn't possibly imagine how much work, how many
decisions, and how much money it would take to create the wedding of
your dreams. Well, reality time is here and it can be overwhelming!
The first place to begin planning any wedding is to decide your budget.
Too often this is done in hindsight with the realization that some
things are just going to have to be eliminated or pared down. By
starting with a realistic budget, you'll find yourself making better
decisions with fewer regrets. Unfortunately, when the money starts to
run thin, one of the more common places couples opt to cut back is on
their reception entertainment. This has often proven to be a
disappointing mistake. One way to think about your reception
entertainment is to consider it to be an insurance policy on the rest of
your investment. The fact is, it won't matter how beautiful your
decorations are, how delicious the meal is, how artistic
the cake is, if your entertainment fails to meet your needs and
expectations. The entertainment is the one factor that can "make or
break" your event. While it's attractive to shop by price, just as with
every other wedding service vendor, price alone is not the definitive factor in this decision. All
DJ services are not equal. You don't want to rush into this important
decision based simply on price. As a mobile disc jockey, let me point
out a few things that you'll want to consider:
- Experience - The first thing to consider is
experience, specifically with wedding receptions. A DJ who does
primarily club work will most likely not have the variety of music
that is necessary to perform at weddings, nor will he or she have the
experience necessary to professionally emcee the reception events. A
good reception entertainer has many responsibilities. He or she needs
to be an event manager, know the kinds of music that will satisfy your
guests, and how to work with other professionals. A reception is a
coordinated effort between many professionals. You want someone who
has had experience working with caterers, photographers, and
videographers so that everything runs smoothly. One indication of an
experienced reception DJ is that he or she will have a thorough event
planner for you to complete or that will be completed with you during
a planning meeting. This will cover everything from the names of your
bridal party, songs to be played for your formal dances, special
requests, songs to NOT play, and many other factors that will help
things run smoothly.
- Music Library - This factor alone varies greatly
amongst people who provide this service. Is their library all-digital
or does it include cassette? Compact disc is the medium of choice for
mobile professionals who keep their libraries current. In addition,
while it can be expected that any DJ have a variety of music that
includes several genres, are they really equipped to play the music
that you and your guests want? How many selections does the DJ have?
While 300-400 CDs may sound like a lot compared to your personal
collection that will almost always be insufficient for a professional.
Even if the DJ is using primarily compilation discs, they will most
likely not be able to handle many of your guests' requests. For a
reception you expect a variety of ages and music tastes. The budget DJ
simply has not invested the amount of money necessary to provide you
with a first class selection of music. Therefore, it is important for
you to select a DJ who has invested in an extensive music library.
- Equipment - Your disc jockey should have high
quality, professional equipment that is designed for mobile use and
that is neatly cased. Cordless mics are also a nice touch for the
blessing & the toasts. This is another feature that you often don't
find with a budget DJ. Although you might not be familiar with brands
for professional equipment, it will not be the brands that you find at
electronics stores. While it is highly unlikely that your disc jockey
will experience any equipment problems, he or she should have back-up
equipment readily available.
- Personality/Interaction - It is important for you
to select a DJ who will provide the style and personality that you
prefer. Do you want an energetic who will interact with your guests,
or do you prefer that the disc jockey provide a more low key approach
and only make necessary announcements? These are questions you should
ask yourself, and the disc jockey. Make sure that you have a match
between your needs and tastes to the ability and style of the disc
jockey. A professional service will be capable of providing any style
that you prefer. They will keep perspective and perform knowing that
it is YOUR day and not their show.
- Appearance/Dress - Unfortunately, this is an
issue that must be examined prior to hiring your disc jockey. If your
wedding is a formal event, your DJ should be dressed appropriately in
a tuxedo or formalwear. A DJ who is dressed casually will take away
from the overall look of your reception.
- Contracts/Reliability - The importance of getting
a written contract from your disc jockey cannot be overemphasized. In
a vast majority of cases where there have been last minute problems,
there was NO written contract or the DJ was a "friend" of the family.
You may have a very capable friend who has offered to provide you disc
jockey services at a discounted rate. The most important social event
of your life is NOT the time to mix business with friendship. What if
the performance is not up to your expectations? Your reception is
disappointing and a friendship is compromised. If you have no contract
do you really want to take the chance of the DJ not showing up for
your event, or canceling at the last minute? A written contract is
imperative. You want it to clearly state who your DJ will be, what
hours are covered, and what is included in the price. Often lighting
and other options are available at an additional fee.
So, now you know some of the criteria you need to consider. How do
you go about gathering this information? Well, of course the best way
would be if you have recently attended a reception and liked the DJ that
performed. However, if this is not the case for you, the Yellow Pages
and the Internet are where to begin. Be cautious of splashy ads…the
biggest ad and the fancies website doesn't necessarily reflect the best
quality. Large multi-system corporations or agencies have the money to
invest in advertising but that doesn't mean they've also invested in
training, quality equipment and solid music libraries.
Many DJ companies have lists of references and possibly even videos that
you can view of DJs "in action." Remember that a great video can be more
indicative of talented and creative editing rather than a talented DJ.
No one is going to show footage of an empty dance floor! Another caution
about videos is to NOT assume that the DJ you see will be the one who
will actually perform at your reception. You have to ask! Often with
large national chains, the video is professionally produced using their
top talent. It's possible that the DJ on the video is not even in your
area. Regarding references, please realize that no one is going to give
references that are less than glowing. You must proceed with caution
regarding anything you watch or read.
There is one great way you can decide if a DJ is right for you. Talk
with him or her. Who would've thought it could be so simple! Over the
phone, or better, in person, you can get a good feel for the persona and
style of the person you are considering. Pay attention to your degree of
comfort while in this person's company. Listen to his or her voice tone
and inflection. These will be good indictors of what you can expect in
terms of professional performance. Pay attention to the questions that
you are asked. This will give you an idea of both how organized and how
tuned in to your needs and expectations he or she may be. Expect
questions like where your event is located, number of guests you
anticipate, and what type of atmosphere you are hoping to create.
What should you talk about? You want to be prepared with questions that
address the criteria examined in this article. That means you have to
ask yourself a lot of questions first. Most important, you need to ask
yourself how much is quality entertainment at your reception worth to
you? Comparatively speaking, your entertainment will be one of the least
expensive factors in your reception. It will be worth investing a bit
more for a top-notch DJ. It's one of the most important decisions you
will make. Years from now your guests will still remember that your
reception was fun!
Jolene Anthony was the owner & operator of Platinum Productions, a
mobile full-service entertainment company based in Butler, PA. She also
served as the "Assistant Dean" of DJ University, an online training
resource for disc jockeys at
www.prodj.com. She
passed away in a car accident in February of 2001 and will be missed
dearly.
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